So this weekend hasn't been as bad as I inntaially thought it would be, you see, I have been pretty much kicked out of my house again and being made to stay at my Father's house until Monday, because apperently Mother Dearest "needs a break" and "he can look after you for a change."
Maybe I wouldn't be so annoyed with this if I had been told to my face, but you see I got it Via text, honestly, the text said
"You are both (meaning me and my brother) staying at dads til Monday, i need a break he can look afta yous for a change."
How loved do I feel please? I guess what annoyed me the most is that my mam and her fiance went to york for the weekend two weeks ago, leaving me and brother behind. So, Yeah, parents need a break once in awhile, they may feel the need to load the kids onto the grandparents or the father or someone, and just go away for a weekend and relax, but you see, my mother and soon to be step-father go away alot, not far, to york, or durham, sometimes wales, but it's been five-six years since me and my brother have been on holiday with our mam (we went on holiday with our dad last year for the first time, but mam just goes with her fiance).
So maybe I sound selfish? I guess I do, but just once, it would be nice to be included in my mother's plans. I know where this is all comming from by the way. Me and my mam had an argument on thuesday, which lasted till thursday, and then we were good up until saturday when she decided to get rid of us.
This is were the title of the blog comes in.
Secrets are meant to be told
Well, the last time me and my mam had a major argument, I went to stay with my dad for a while, and while I was there he told me many things that my mam hadn't told me. Like how she stopped my dad from seeing me and my brother for like 6-8 weeks, and the abusive texts she had sent him, things that I was too young to remember. What hurts the most is that she lied to for all these years, like she always told me that she had never stopped my dad seeing me, and that all the times he hadn't seen me it was all his fault, when in truth, they were just as bad as each other.
Promises are made to be broken
This may seem petty to you, but to me It's a big thing. About a year or so ago my mam and soon to be stepfather went to wales, and they told me about a big Doctor Who musem that they wanted to take me to, because I'm a huge Doctor Who geek ^^
Well, later that day me and my mother were talking and I told her how much I would like to go to the musem, and she promised that sometime after christmas that year that just me and her would to wales and she would take me to the musem. Well she never did, and it hurt me that she broke that promise, because all I really wanted to do was spend a long weekend with just my Mam, because we never really get to do that....
So yeah, That was a pretty pointless rant, but I really wanted to blog about it, because I don't know if I'm just being petty or I do infact have every right to be a little pished off?
So have you ever been lied to, or had an important promise broken?
I know I won't get many answers to my questions, I never really do, but it would be nice if I got a couple of comments :)
anyway
ttfn mes amis (: x
Hey ho Holly Wolly :)
ReplyDeleteOh my God... I'm never greeting you like that again. Remind me for future reference.
Yes I have been lied to about important things, but sometimes I have lied in equal measure so I try not to be too mad (even though I usually am).
I've also had an important promise broken, two actually. They will seem petty in a few years time I think but right now is what counts, so I know how you feel.
.. I'm really sorry, about the above stuff.... :/
xx
I'll remind you to never greet me like that again, it's disturbing haha :P
ReplyDeletethanks for the comment xxxx
and it's all good now but I do still feel pretty sore about it :/
and I guess everyone gets the same really, we all get lied to, and we all get promises broken, but meh, we just gotta get on with it xx